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[Cathi_R]

In recent years that has been increasing changes in relationships. Many long term marriages and relationships have broken up, some have left their partners and some have just 'settled', for whatever reason, everyone's choice should be honored.
I hope this article (*excerpt from the original, link below) will help shed some understanding as to what is happening .... Cathi

"Prior to this incarnation, you knew that these relationships would be fun and challenging and you also knew that once incarnated, you would forget everything and create the illusion of difficulty and frustration. Even so, with great intestinal fortitude, you donned the veil and forgot…not only the fine print in your contracts but the whole of each one. Such brave souls you all are, but you knew that donning the veil and forgetting would provide you with the difficulty level that you would need to cause the ladder to jump.
We have told you before that these relationships were initially for the purpose of survival but they have evolved and are continuing to evolve. In the New Energy, their purpose is for the mutual spiritual growth of the partners. That is why they are called Spiritual Partnership or Spiritual Relationship.
Longstanding relationships are ending as the partners discover consciously or unconsciously that the relationship no longer serves one or the other or both. This is happening whether the partners are aware of it spiritually or not, as everyone is on their own spiritual path, knowingly or unknowingly.
New relationships are forming, many of them seemingly coming from “out of the blue” as members of original soul families reconnect in love at many levels, to fulfill contracts made for this lifetime to assist each other in living life and in spiritual growth. In many of these relationships, as well as in the renewal of some existing relationships, people are discovering a connection with their partner that is full and complete in all areas including Intellectually, Spiritually, Emotionally and Physically. When they see that there may be a weakness in a certain area, they are able to set aside their egos (at least, eventually, unless they forget), dispense with who is “right” and who is “wrong” and just do the work necessary to heal it.
With the ending of many longstanding relationships come feelings of betrayal, abandonment, rejection and the fear of not being good enough, for some. These lessons are being presented to you - again - for the purpose of causing you to take a good, hard, look at yourself. Do you think you are good enough? Do you think you are worth it? Do you think you are deserving? Do you accept yourself? DO YOU LOVE YOURSELF?
Even in the new relationships forming and in the renewal of existing relationships, this same core issue is surfacing again and again. It matters not what the trigger is (and it may be something silly and insignificant, as our partner recently discovered) that causes this issue to surface, it just does its job; and there it is again, right in your face! One relationship may end and another new one may begin and sometimes it may be with the same person. New Beginnings…New Love…with someone new or the instantaneous resumption with the same person, wider and deeper than ever before!Let us take a few moments to explore the dynamic of the new relationship.
Relationships of the primary variety have always looked like two people leaning against each other. As long as neither changed or evolved in any way, there were relatively few problems, however the moment one or the other began to change, grow or evolve in any way, the other would fall over and there would be friction between the two. This would also happen even if both were evolving but at different rates of acceleration. What is created is the illusion of separation, perhaps causing envy or jealousy of sorts and if the two did not realize what was happening, it would almost certainly lead to the dissolution of the relationship or worse, with both staying and being miserable. Even if they did realize it, they may have agreed that the relationship was irreparable, not worth the effort of re-solidifying it or that it had served its purpose and of course, each is always at choice.
In the Spiritual Relationship, either new or renewed, the partners know that each will continue to evolve and usually at different rates of acceleration. When one is growing and the other is not or is growing at a slower rate, the one who is not growing, supports the other in his/her growth and the one who is growing has respect, appreciation and compassion for his/her partner. There are no egos and no right or wrong, only support, respect, appreciation, compassion and mutual love, along with a full and complete connection, Intellectually, Emotionally, Spiritually and Physically. These are two people who accept and love each other and themselves for who they are, who respect and accept each other’s choices and who love each other without attachment.
This relationship can be between a man and a woman, a man and a man or a woman and a woman. You have already begun to see the emergence of more same sex relationships as the veil gets thinner and the male and female energies that comprise each of you, reunite and meld. This is as it is on our side of the veil, neither male nor female and both male and female as one…genderless. We are advocating nothing here, neither opposite sex nor same sex partnership, only the Spiritual Relationship of your choosing.
I In the realm of same sex relationship, we applaud the mayors in several of your U. S. cities for disregarding state laws by issuing licenses for same sex marriages. These are courageous and groundbreaking actions in allowing humans to fully express who they are.
We also note the sexual experimentation of your younger generation, both opposite sex and same sex experimentation. It is neither right nor wrong. It may appear to you to be chaotic and they may appear to be uninformed. At the conscious level, some are uninformed, some are misinformed and some just don’t care. Most have no clue as to why they do what they do, consciously, however, at the soul level; they know exactly what they are doing. They are here to rebel and push the envelope in their attempt to step into the consciousness of Oneness. That is exactly what they are doing and there are lessons being presented. This is part of their contract. Will the illusion be created of some of them being “hurt” as a result of their actions? Well, yes, of course it will and this is their choice, it is their job, there will be lessons and they have asked for this.
All of these relationships are evolving and these experimentations are taking place as people seek to reunite with each other in the Oneness, to create Heaven On Earth and you haven’t seen anything yet! Many of these relationships are of the traditional opposite sex variety and some are of the same sex variety. Those of the same sex have not only been emerging more and more, but are actually beginning to be accepted. Progress is being made in this area as their purpose and intent shift to the melding of male and female energies within each of you and to reuniting with the consciousness of One. No matter how any of these relationships look, there is no right or wrong and there are lessons.
The relationships that we have just described are already emerging and existing and this now leads us to the possibility of yet another variety of relationship that may emerge and that is the MUTI-PARTNER RELATIONSHIP. In attempting to step into Unity Consciousness, some may feel that this would be the way to accomplish this. There has been much channeled and written about this recently and there are many of you who have become frightened by this. Is your fear that this may actually emerge? Are you wondering if this will destroy existing relationships? How will this look? How will you be judged if you choose to participate…or not participate? How will it affect you, your families, your children and a host of other things? Is your fear that you may actually choose to participate in this, or that your significant other may choose to participate? Calm down, Dearest Warriors Of The Light! We are only exploring a possibility with you. You are the ones who will write the script.
The last time this movement was attempted was during the “time” of your 1960’s. People spoke of: Peace and Love! and Free Love! It was a time of communal living, mind expansion through recreational pharmaceuticals and sharing partners. None of this was right or wrong and there certainly were lessons presented and consequences to deal with. Some of you even carried parts of this into the 1970’s and beyond. Have you noticed that this particular brand did not really work?
Although in the 1960’s everyone spoke of Peace and Love and Free Love, the energy and the true intent were grossly misdirected. The banner said, “LOVE” but for most, what was meant was SEX - just an excuse to justify sex, irresponsibly, with multiple partners. Again, this was not right or wrong and it is dishonest and misdirected intention. Even some who were actually about the LOVE were misdirected, actually searching for the love that they felt they never had received, through sex. Now, sex is a wonderful thing, attested to by many on this side who have had the human experience and LOVE…Real LOVE, will not be discovered there. Real Love can be expressed and even enhanced through the physical act, but first the love must be present, with its foundation in acceptance of self and love of self, and then, the love that is felt for another may be honestly and truly expressed, Physically, as well as Intellectually, Emotionally and Spiritually.
Will the 1960’s once again be revisited through the new multi-partner relationships, in attempts to move into Oneness and Unity Consciousness? You and those who come after you hold the key to that answer. We can tell you that if the 1960’s are revisited, it is possible that they will be much more chaotic and frightening, as participants in their spiritual elitism make it known that they are “right” in doing what they are doing and in the way that they are doing it. It will again be practiced “in the name” of LOVE - the banner of LOVE being held high but the foundation will be sex, irresponsibility, manipulation and control.
Some groups will contain members of the opposite sexes, some coupling in opposite sex arrangements, others possibly in same sex arrangements and perhaps at times, all at once. Other groups will be of the same sex. Sometimes, groups will gather to trade partners and other times they may gather for large sessions of group sex. LOVE? What do you think? If this does come to fruition, it will breed disorder, chaos, manipulation, control and fear, through dishonest and misdirected intention, all in the name of Oneness. This will never work in the way it is purely intended…to reunite with Oneness, if it is based on lies and deception. Again, this is not right or wrong, you are always at choice and there will be lessons and consequences.
The good news is that from this chaos, fear and deception, the true multi-partner relationship may emerge, based in LOVE, Oneness and Unity Consciousness. If it is your choice, you may participate, however, it is not mandatory to do so, to step into Oneness. This does not mean that your monogamous, single partner relationship will be obsolete or not good enough, nor does it mean that you will not be allowed to step into Oneness. It means that you are with a person of like mind who chooses as you do, to be monogamous and committed to one person while loving all.
Dearest Warriors Of The Light, this could all become very sticky, especially at first, if this is the course that you choose. Even though you have been given this information about multi-partner relationships before, we have chosen to expand on it. We give this to you not to scare you, but to prepare you for what is possible, because you have asked for it. Know that you will be dealt no cards that you have not requested and that you cannot handle. You are always at choice and all choices are honored.
We humbly present this information to you for your discernment, with the greatest of respect, appreciation, compassion and love for you and the path you have so courageously chosen in this lifetime. We leave you for now with this reminder:
Know This Above All:
Love is the answer,
Love is the answer.
No matter what the question,
Love is always the answer.
ALL OF THIS IS FOR THE TAKING.
TAKE ALL OF IT. TAKE SOME OF IT. TAKE NONE OF IT.
YOUR CHOICE!
YOUR GLORIOUS CHOICE!"

*complete article can be found at: [url]www.HealingTheUniverse.com [/url]- MESSAGES FROM MYSELF April 2004 Installment # 14


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